I just finished my second video for my Facebook group yesterday. Well, the second one that I wasn’t nervous as hell!! I discovered that I was being invisible with possible clients online. I had to get over that because I have so much to offer women. My own process taught me that I have a gift of seeing and feeling things others don’t. I can be accused of being too blunt sometimes to people. It is because I can see what they can’t….then they get down the road and realize I was right!! I am looking for those that just trust my REAL ass instinct and my upfront attitude. It’s funny because I see sooooo many people flock to the fake people!! I understand having a gift and not knowing what it is. I understand what it is like not to fit in and not know why. I teach those women that fitting in is overrated!! You were not supposed to in the first place. Society teaching us to blend in. I teach embracing your uniqueness….to celebrate it!! I help women get over their fears, because I have had to face my own. Supporting women on a global level is my goal, so, this is a step in that direction! What “thing” are YOU afraid of that you need to face? If it scares you, that means you should do it!!!


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You are a work of art, Queen! Where you are right now took time. You want to go to another level? That takes time as well. The real question is…….are you ready to go to another level? Is there something missing? Are you throwing yourself into every little thing trying to fill the void you have? I tried that to. The void is your highest self crying out. You can’t fill that with ANYTHING else but emotional growth. Authenticity in your mind, body & soul is the only thing that will free you. Would you like to know what that feels like? Let’s talk, Queen!


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Happy #humpday!! I am so grateful to be able to empower women. It is an honor to be of service. Where in your life would you like to have a huge change. What does the ideal life look like for you? Why are you waiting to get it? Wait til your kids get older? Waiting on the paint to dry? Those are just excuses. You are worthy of investing in yourself. what good is the future if you are not living RIGHT NOW? Let’s talk, Queen.


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Is your husband your best friend? I know mine is because when I get mad at him and giving him the silent treatment……then I get good news or have something to share with him, it is more important that whatever I was mad at him about. We get mistaken for brother and sister ALL the time. We look nothing alike. The way we talk to each other (sarcasm in HIGH) people feel that is what they usually see in siblings. I am so grateful for the people we have become. We have literally grew together. It’s almost 20 years and the best hasn’t been seen yet! I love you, Mike!! #relationship #relationshipgoals #marriage #marriagegoals #maven #lover #spiritualgrowth #lovequotes #thinkaboutit #loveis #inspirations #lovebirds #loves #loved #healing #emotion #authentic #emotions #thinkbig #relationshipquotes #couples #couplegoals #feelings #couple #romance #dating #relationshipadvice #LoveLanguage #relationships


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Happy Sunday, Queens!! How do you keep passion in your marriage? I have been with Mike for almost 20 years. We got to a stale point and it got me to thinking of a way to spice things up. It was the start of my program, Six Weeks of Fire. There is a way to spark that fire up, Queens. We are proof that it works! #relationship #relationshipgoals #marriage #marriagegoals #maven #lover #spiritualgrowth #lovequotes #thinkaboutit #loveis #inspirations #lovebirds #loves #loved #healing #emotion #authentic #emotions #thinkbig


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Women have to support and empower each other!! I formed my Facebook group The Red Lipstick Society just for reason. I made it a BULLSHIT FREE ZONE for women to have fun, teach, learn, encourage, and support each other. You are so welcome to join us, Queen. Click here to join! http://on.fb.me/1QbmJD8 #businessbabes #queens #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #boss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #coachlife #spiritualgrowth #bossbabe #bosslady #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #queen #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #goddess #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness #womenempowerment #ladyboss


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It is #datenight!! We still hold hands after almost 20 years together. We kiss each goodbye every day. Won’t fake the funk and say we have been perfect over the years. Before getting emotional help and clarity, we have both done some things to each other many could not recover from. Finding out why you do what you do and where it comes from….it is life changing. We have forgiven each other for being human. We are better now than we were in the beginning. I am so grateful that love keep us together, and forgiveness made us stronger! #relationship #relationshipgoals #marriage #marriagegoals #maven #lover #spiritualgrowth #lovequotes #thinkaboutit #loveis #inspirations #lovebirds #loves #loved #healing #emotion #authentic #emotions #thinkbig #wordsofwisdom / #lifelessons / #thoughtoftheday / #positivequotes / #inspiringquotes / #quoteoftheday / #quotestoliveby / #quotesgram / #quotesandsayings / #quotestagram


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Good morning, beautiful Queens. Happy Friday. When I became enlightened, I found a new respect for shining in our own lights. The world teaches us to compete with each other so much that we forget to just acknowledge a talent, beauty, or accomplishments of others. There is abundance for us all. There is enough light for all. When someone else shines, send loving light towards them. Their light does not dim yours, nor does it have ANYTHING to do with you…what you do..or what you lack in yourself. Shine on!! . #businessbabes #queens #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #boss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #coachlife #spiritualgrowth #bossbabe #bosslady #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #queen #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #goddess #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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Don’t you just love being in the moment? Sometimes you have to walk away from all that it on your mind and be totally present. Becoming enlightened helped me find presence. Once you find it, you are living abundantly! #lifebydesign #womens #womenempowerment #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #coach #youareenough #help #selflove #loveis #think #believers #guidance #loves #feelings #inspirations #acceptyourself #create #loveyourself #mentoring #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #authentic #healing


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Happy Thursday, Queens. I still work my day job until I transition full time in my coaching business. (REALLY SOON!!!) My list is the only way it all gets done. I am a full time mother…wife…sister..aunt. I am a busy bee, Darling. Your passion keeps you going. The result will be worth it. I will impact women globally! GET AT IT!!! #businessbabes #queens #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #boss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #coachlife #spiritualgrowth #bossbabe #bosslady #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #queen #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #goddess #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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Happy #throwbackthursday! I had decided to go natural, so I cut all my hair off and became a redhead! That was the beginning of me finding my highest self! I was in St Louis at an Organo Gold conference. It my look like I was GQ smooth, however, I could not breathe in that state and was sneezing almost the whole time! #businessbabes #queens #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #boss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #coachlife #spiritualgrowth #bossbabe #bosslady #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #queen #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #goddess #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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A few years ago,….before I became the person I am right now, I became withdrawn and depressed. Nothing seemed to make me happy in my life. I had no idea what was happening to me. I was pursued by a breakthrough coach who didn’t even know me. I didn’t know this woman, and there I was crying for no reason telling her how unhappy I was. There was no judgement…only support, She helped me discover why I felt emotionally drained. Throughout my process, I became passionate about helping women like me. Ones who are the rock of the family. The one everyone comes to that gets sucked dry by always being there for everyone else. I want to be their rock…their support. To be there for the one no one asks “How are you doing?’ If this sounds like YOU, let’s talk, Queen. You deserve to be supported as much as you support others. Contact me to set up an appointment. Maven@lelahightower.com #businessbabes #queens #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #boss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #coachlife #spiritualgrowth #bossbabe #bosslady #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #queen #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #goddess #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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Happy Wednesday, Queen. Time to hunt that goal down. I believe we should ALWAYS be hunting for knowledge…the next move…the next step…a different way to think. Do not let fear keep you from ANYTHING!!! #businessbabes #queens #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #boss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #coachlife #spiritualgrowth #bossbabe #bosslady #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #queen #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #goddess #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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Up still trying to GET IT! I love empowering women. What area of you life do you need support in achieving? I am your mediator between where you are right now and where you want to be! http://bit.ly/2r2BxMT #businessbabes #queens #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #boss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #coachlife #spiritualgrowth #bossbabe #bosslady #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #queen #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #goddess #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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You can breakthrough the cave to the light. Your goal…your joy…your soul is calling out to light. It is time to feed your highest self. Ready to get started> #lifebydesign #womens #womenempowerment #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #coach #youareenough #help #selflove #loveis #think #believers #guidance #loves #feelings #inspirations #acceptyourself #create #loveyourself #mentoring #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #authentic #healing


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TRUST YOUR PROCESS! Rome was not built in a day. You can do whatever you put your mind to it! http://bit.ly/2r2BxMT #businessbabes #networth #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #beyourownboss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #growyourbusiness #blmgirls #bosschick #bossladies #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #werkwerkwerk #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #workingmom #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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Something about a #pole and a #pier! I need someone with a boat to host a fishing trip!! #fish #bass #fishinglife #bassfishing #fishingtrip #fishingislife #fishingdaily #lovefishing #fishingboat #deepseafishing #fishingaddict #riverfishing #fishingboats #freshwaterfishing #instafishing #fishingpicoftheday #largemouthbass #fishon #lurefishing #flyfishing #tightlines #largemouth #fishin #fisherman #offshorefishing #saltwaterfishing #livetofish


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As you are going into your weekend, take time to see something beautiful! Smoochies!! #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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Setbacks are part of the process. Do you want it bad enough? Are you learning from it? Is that the direction you are supposed to go in anyway. Setbacks are there to guide you to the right path…not to make you quit. Keep at it! #businessbabes #networth #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #beyourownboss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #growyourbusiness #blmgirls #bosschick #bossladies #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #werkwerkwerk #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #workingmom #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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Happy Friday, Queens! Sending all me love and light to each of you!! #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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Your intuition is SO AMAZING! Have you ever just had this feeling to do something and all fell into place. Or you had that feeling and didn’t follow it and realized that you should have went with your first mind? That is your connection to the Creator talking to your highest self. The universe wants to give you EVERYTHING you ever want. Learn to use your super power! #businessbabes #networth #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #beyourownboss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #growyourbusiness #blmgirls #bosschick #bossladies #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #werkwerkwerk #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #workingmom #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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Are you balanced? I learned so much about what was holding me back. Having balanced chakras is HUGE part of having happiness, balance, and unlimited abundance. #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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I knew the change was real when old associates started coming out the past. When you make huge transformations, you start letting go of the past. You let go of regrets and forgive yourself for being human. The people that you let go of actually FEEL the release of the space you have held for them. They don’t even know why they feel the need to contact you. I knew the transformation was REAL…when I was not triggered by them. I could TRULY let that part of my life go. They don’t know this me…and I don’t care to let them see! #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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All in all……I would rather be #fishing!!! Love a sunset…and a hook in the water. Who’s in? #fish #bass #fishinglife #bassfishing #fishingtrip #fishingislife #fishingdaily #lovefishing #fishingboat #deepseafishing #fishingaddict #riverfishing #fishingboats #freshwaterfishing #instafishing #fishingpicoftheday #largemouthbass #fishon #lurefishing #flyfishing #tightlines #largemouth #fishin #fisherman #offshorefishing #saltwaterfishing #livetofish


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I remember when I had my “breakdown”. The worst part of it is that it felt like it came up all of a sudden.when in reality, it had been coming for a long time. Hiding behind being a mother…a wife…a job…it will last only so long before your soul calls out to your calling. Your “happiness” is superficial if you do not have passion and purpose in your life. Are you happy….or just really comfortable? #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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Happy #humpday, Queens! Sending beautiful love your way!! #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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You are YOU and there is no other like YOU. You have something to offer this world that is yours and yours alone, Queen. Shining in your own light cannot be dimmed be someone else shining in theirs! #businessbabes #networth #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #beyourownboss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #growyourbusiness #blmgirls #bosschick #bossladies #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #werkwerkwerk #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #workingmom #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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I got BOTH OF YOU!! Having the relationship that you truly desire is right around the corner. Being a 20 year veteran of marriage has driven me to support others in their journey! If you could change anything about your marriage or dating right at this moment,,,what would it be. Let’s talk about it! #relationship #relationshipgoals #marriage #marriagegoals #marriagemaven #couplegoals #couple #romance #together #lovehim #loveher #couples #forever #unforgettable #girlfriend #boyfriend #kisses #xoxo #kiss #congratulations #ceremony #celebrate #bf #gf #dating


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It is better to give than receive, right? That is what I have always been told. Will not argue that saying. I will say this….what happens when you give so much that your well becomes empty? Self love and self care is just as important as giving. In my enlightenment journey, I had to learn to say that this is for ME and ONLY ME…and be ok with that. Coming from a big family, I became identified with my siblings as if we were one person. That role stuck for so long. It is ok to do for YOU, Queen!! #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #chakrahealing #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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I got YOU! I love having sistas back. I live to support YOU. What area of your life do you need support in right now? Let’s talk about it! #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #chakrahealing #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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YOU ARE ENOUGH, Queen! Fitting in is so overrated. If they don’t like the REAL YOU…..it is there loss. There is a saying that people’s opinion of you…is none of your business. That is so true. Worry about the mirror and loving yourself. #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #chakrahealing #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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You can do ANYTHING you put your mind to, Darling. You have to be ready for the process getting there. So, many times, we can’t get over ourselves. So much ego and need for control in the way. Letting go….releasing control.. makes room for new joy. #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #chakrahealing #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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Sometimes, we set ourselves back from healing by steadily going back to that thing. It is SO important to feel what you need to feel concerning the pain. After that, you have to replace it with joy. When you keep picking at it, it reopens the wound and it will never heal. #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #chakrahealing #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #love #lovinglife #livinglife


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Put that crown on your brain. You are a QUEEN by birthright! CROWN ON! #businessbabes #networth #womensupportingwomen #womenwhohustle #beyourownboss #businesscoach #empowerwomen #developherbrand #happy #businesschicks #growyourbusiness #blmgirls #bosschick #bossladies #goaldigger #femalebusinessowner #womeninbusiness #calledtobecreative #werkwerkwerk #blackownedbusiness #instalove #browngirlbloggers #entrepreneurship #smallbusinessowner #workingmom #womeninbiz #supportblackbusiness


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EVERY DAY is an opportunity to make a better choice for your highest and best good. EVERY DAY is a chance to make a change for the better. When you say there is no time….what you are REALLY saying, Darling…is that you don’t want to . Just saying! #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #chakrahealing #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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LOVE women who own the skin they are in! You can always better yourself in whatever way you FEEL you need to. You have to love who you are at that moment to get to another! #lifebydesign #womensupportingwomen #empowered #inspiringpeople #motivation #believeinyourself #selfworth #selfesteem #reinventimpossible #stress #chakrahealing #consciousculture #youareenough #gratitude #selflove #livelovelaugh #thinkers #believers #guidance #accepted #nominate #learningprocess #acceptyourself #selfacceptance #selflove #embraceyourself #selfconfidence #selfloveisthebestlove #lovinglife #livinglife


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